Avoiding and dealing with non-paying bidders.
Wednesday, November 1st, 2006 - 11:18 am
A reader of this newsletter dropped us a note awhile back that read:
“Hi Jim, I Love your newsletter! In your next newsletter would you consider addressing the eBay seller problem of non-paying bidders?
Since I became involved in selling *product deleted*, I occasionally run into these deadbeats. Any suggestions on how to avoid them? I don’t leave negative feedback for these people as I don’t want to ruin my 100% positive rating. Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated.”
Thanks!
Bonnie
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Jim’s Reply -
I’m happy to help you solve this problem. It’s getting easier to avoid and squeeze non-paying bidders!
…and since this newsletter is called “Creative eBay Selling” I even have a slightly “mean” way to resolve the problem that actually works quite well! I’ll save that for the end of the article.
Non-paying bidders can cause a lot of grief for an eBay seller who doesn’t yet understand their rights and resources, but once you take a few precautions and understand your options it’s really not that big of an issue. It can be reduced to a rare and minor inconvenience.
Let’s start with prevention.
The best solution is to keep “bad bidders” from ever winning your auctions.
Here are some ideas…
I’ve found that 90% of my “non-paying” bidders are NEW to eBay.
One way to avoid getting burned by these “newbies” is to monitor your auctions - especially the higher end auctions. Send an email request to bidders with less than 3 positive feedback and request that they reply to your email to “verify their identity” and to let you know that they truly intend to buy the item if they win.
Your email to the newbie might look like this:
————-(start email)———–
SUBJECT: (ebay ID of your bidder) - YOUR RESPONSE IS REQUIRED!
Thank you for bidding on my auction #0000000″.
I noticed that you are fairly new to eBay. If you have questions please let me know.
I have a favor to ask - please don’t take this wrong, but…
It is my experience on eBay that 99% of all transactions go very smoothly, but when there is confusion it usually is the result of a new eBayer not understanding the eBay system.
MY SIMPLE REQUEST:
As a courtesy to me and the other more experienced eBay customers I have please allow me verify your identity and intentions. Please reply to this email with a simple statement that you do intend to buy the item you’ve bid on if you win the auction. Please include your first and last name in the response.
I promise to then leave you alone until the end of the auction.
Don’t be uncomfortable with this request since this is all information I’ll need if you win anyway.
Unfortunately failure to meet this request within (reasonable time frame) will result in the cancellation of your bid.
Thanks for understanding and happy bidding! etc.”
————-(end email)———–
If that sounds like a lot of work remember I said to ONLY use this idea on higher priced auctions!
If you don’t get a reply within a reasonable amount of time cancel their bid. I’ve done this MANY times and only ONCE did I upset a potential customer enough that they emailed me to complain.
NOTE TO EBAY MANAGEMENT: It would be great if you could automate the above process for your sellers! It would be a nice feature of the “Buyer Block Preferences”.
Back to our article…
EBay Sellers can cancel the bids of their customers by visiting this page:
http://pages.ebay.com/help/sell/cancel_bids.html
Don’t want to monitor your auctions that closely? There are other options.
You can also automatically block “dangerous” ebayers (or bad feedback bidders) from bidding on your auctions by setting up “buyer blocks”. Details here:
http://offer.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?BuyerBlockPreferences
I’ve virtually eliminated non-paying bidder headaches this way.
Finally, you can opt to use the “Buy it now” option in your listings and thanks to the fairly new setting called “Require Immediate Payment” your item will remain up for sale until someone completes the payment process. In other words, the item remains up for sale until a successful payment is processed into your paypal account.
Dealing with the occasional non-paying bidder is a fact of eBay life though. When dealing with non-paying or slow paying bidders use this eBay resource page as a reference.
http://pages.ebay.com/help/tp/unpaid-item-process.html
If you follow the steps listed on that page you don’t have to pay seller fees on non-paying bidder items.
You should also know that if a buyer gets too many “non-paying” strikes in too short a time period, their account will be suspended indefinitely. It is your responsibility to report these trouble makers. Details here:
http://pages.ebay.com/help/policies/unpaid-item.html
Finally, if you are selling low end priced products my advice is to just move on…don’t waste your time tracking down deadbeats. Just relist the item back up for sale. Don’t leave any negative feedback.
REVENGE OF THE SELLER:
I promised you a “mean” solution to the non-paying bidder problem.
The last tip I want to give you is a little “evil”, but I really like it. I have to admit I haven’t had the chance (opportunity) to use it yet myself.
To give credit where credit is due I first heard this idea from my pal Terry - http://www.silentsalesmachine.com/terryg.html
Terry keeps multiple eBay accounts active (a great idea for many reasons). One of his accounts is rarely used to buy or sell anything. Let’s call that unused account his “dummy ebay account”. His “primary selling account” is very active however.
When Terry encounters a non-paying bidder on his “primary selling account” he gets real sneaky…
For our example let’s assume Terry just sold a blue widget to a deadbeat bidder who won’t pay. The winning bid was $100. Once he’s sure the bidder is backing out he puts his “evil” plan into motion.
Terry opens uses his “dummy ebay account” and sends the winning (deadbeat) bidder a note that reads something like this:
“Dear [ebay id]-
I noticed that you recently purchased a blue widget on eBay for $100. I’ve really been wanting one of those and I’ll give you $180 for it right now if you can ship it quickly! Please respond!”
The deadbeat has no idea that the seller is sending this email. Terry says that deadbeats pay up quickly when they get his note. Pretty clever isn’t he?
Does this violate any eBay regulations? Yes it does. But who will complain? You aren’t avoiding eBay fees since you won’t be paying the deadbeat $180! You are actually helping eBay collect their fees!
…don’t hold your breath waiting for eBay to approve this sneaky tactic.
Do I feel bad tricking a deadbeat into paying?
Nope - I sure don’t.





Hi Jim,
Thank you for addressing the non-paying bidder problem. I have been on eBay for more than 7 1/2 years and have had problems with newbies with non-payment and not reading my item descriptions or terms of sale leading to further serious problems and misunderstandings. I have found requiring instant payment is helpful with Buy It Now, but I also realize that it eliminates some of my potential buyers who prefer to pay by other means and like to bid. Part of the problem, as I see it, is that eBay does not educate newbies properly before turning them loose to enter into a legally binding contract, so they do not take buying seriously and gloss over the eBay agreement leaving sellers to pick up the pieces. I have also recently seen that eBay is more likely to side with newbies who they do not educate and do not know what they are doing than with sellers who have excellent feedback ratings who have been filling their coffers for years. I have found that most newbies have a knee jerk repsonse and read little if anything at all so I am uncertain as to whether or not they would even read your first well crafted letter to encourage them to pay up.
One question I do have is that I would like to know how to go about setting up more than one eBay ID and store and if you could address that I would certainly appreciate it.
Thank you,
Rachel
[[reply from Jim]]: having more than one eBay account is simple. Just use a different email address and apply for a different account. No eBay policy is violated. Part of doing business is dealing with the occasional dishonest or uneducated customer - don\’t let it get you down!
I\’ve been receiving your newsletter for quite awhile, but today\’s topic…Non-paying bidders…was quite timely! I\’m sick of deadbeats and have had wayyyy too many of them lately.
I\’m wondering about this for an idea: Are there any rules that would prevent me from putting a notice in my listing that states \”all items must be paid in full within 5 days of auction end OR communication made that you intend to send a money order. After that time, I reserve the right to offer this item for a Second Chance.\”
Please let me know…thanks!
[[reply from Jim]]: Those kinds of \”negative tone\” statements scare off good customers. Find a way to state the policy in a positive manner. Also keep the 7 day policy in mind - from eBay.com:
\”Usually the seller must wait 7 days after a listing closes to file an Unpaid Item Dispute. However, in the following exceptional cases, the seller can file a dispute immediately:
I like it. Nice advice which I think would work on a lot of non paying bidders.
LOL! Terrys advice is quite clever. I will definitely keep it in mind if needed :o)
Thanks for the good Creative tips Jim, keep them coming.
-Wayne Larimore
http://HomeBiz.Waynester.Net
http://ResellForProfit.Waynester.Net
Hi Jim! I will tell you from personal experience that Terri’s plan worked for me. I bought your e-books a long time ago and remembered this sneaky tactic. When a buyer clearly wasn’t going to pay me for a lot of 10 collectibles, I used my “dummy” account to contact him and offered him a high, but reasonable, price for the goods. He paid me within 24 hours! What is sad is that the auction was for charity.
Hi Jim,
I’m going to definitely use your suggestion of sending the letter to new eBayers who bid on items, and I even liked Terry’s tip…It’s clever and it actually made me chuckle!
Patricia
www.bizimamas.com
www.lordsart.com
What great ideas. I am really so tired of non paying bidders on Ebay. Thanks for sharing.