Alternate title 1: Marketing while still being able to look at yourself in the mirror…it’s not too late
Alternate title 2: Why the good guy are winning more often online
Mark my words -
I predict that the era of mega Internet Marketing Launches is coming to a close. They will eventually die an ugly and slow death because WE the consumers will demand it and literally FRY those who go against the wave of angry victims that nearly all big launches create.
What’s an IM Launch? If you don’t know what an IM Launch is I’ll sum it up for you. The same list of 15-20 “gurus” all cooperate to launch high price tag product after product to hopeful online entrepreneurs. The “gurus” take turns propping up each others big launches while giving away massive prizes to each other for the most affiliate sales. Endorsements flow like water from one “guru” to the next for each big launch without even so much as reading a summary of what the product contains. Email sales copy is “copy/pasted” and there’s a BUY NOW before it’s all over edge to each “launch”.
While there will always be suckers willing to pay $X,XXX for each sharply packaged digital course, here’s what’s going to change very soon:
The ever growing list of SMART CONSUMERS in the IM niche (I hope this includes you) are going to start using their ever increasing online influence to tell their ever growing loyal audiences to STAY AWAY from the shiny objects. And the growing trend is that consumers are NAMING NAMES and ending the careers of those deserving of termination.
I’ve developed some standards that I think we need for the entire industry as consumers and as creators of “online business growth” content:
1) If the training is digitally delivered, make it affordable. If it’s SOOO great, you’ll have plenty of people who want one-on-one coaching to grow the biz and that coaching (if it’s good) can be worth more money later to your top students. This is good marketing, good business, and starts things off on the right foot with nervous students.
2) No bright shiny objects allowed (cut the graphics crap, cut the false scarcity, the exotic backgrounds etc.) As buyers we don’t care – or at least we SHOULDN’T! If you DO actually buy into flashy presentation and care what car your “guru” drives shame on you. YOU are the sucker and you will soon be waving good-bye to what little cash you have left.
3) Start small, grow slow, & make sure it’s not going to be saturated before you start sharing it with us. In other words, no more big launches on unproven and unreliable concepts. PROVE it first by rolling it out to people who trust you…we’ll buy later once you have REAL testimonials from real people and can prove that you are onto something worthy of mass attention. I’m blessed that I’ve come up with THREE such concepts in my ten years of doing this business. I don’t trust ANYONE who comes up with a new concept every few months!
4) Recruit your early successful students to present their ideas to the rest of us as their businesses grow. Let the content GROW as new creative ideas and people come on board. Commit long term to things you believe in and produce results.
5) Hire successful students to monitor the MANDATORY INCLUDED discussion forums and let everyone hang out and learn there.
6) With rare exception, there should be no time limits on refunds for online courses. If the course is SOOO great it should still be working six months from now. We should still be seeing new success stories then as well and the content should still be getting updates for relevance.
7) End guru worship. Showing off the stuff you have does not impress the kind of customer that you’ll need if you want to build a real business.
8) Your “expert testimonials” are crap. Show us real people giving their FIRST EVER real testimonial. Those are the ones that matter.
Am I forgetting anything?
How can YOU help make this a reality? STOP BUYING STUFF THAT YOU KNOW IS GARBAGE.
Lesson for my “expert” colleagues: If you aim your marketing at idiots you’ll soon have an audience of the same.
I’d love to read your comments on this one! Use the comment button above and add your thoughts.
There’s a secret that a few of us have figured out and you need to know the big secret as well. Some who read this post will think I’m nuts, but I’m O.K. with that.
I’m making a great living selling a bunch of products and services every week and helping thousands of people around the world succeed as well. The odds are, anyone who calls me crazy is also stuck scratching their heads in amazement at my success while they endure a job they hate.
I’ll take my life over the “haters” any day – thank you very much.
The “Big Secret”
My 13 year old came home from a youth event recently and he had a long verbal list of complaints about the evening. It was typical stuff for a teenage brain, but it helped me connect some business dots in my own head as I let him rattle off his list of reasons why things hadn’t gone well that night.
After he was done and just before I went into “consoling dad mode”, I asked one simple question that I think annoyed him a bit, but it made my point.
I asked, “If you think back through the entire story you just told me what did nearly every sentence have in common?“
Without even hearing his story I’ll bet you can figure it out right?
If not, you’ll figure it out in a minute.
First, let’s make a list of all the stuff that virtually none of your customers, prospects, readers, fans, clients, video viewers, Facebook and twitter friends or online followers actually care about:
99.9% of them don’t truly care…
…get the point?
So what do they care about?
They are actually asking themselves some simple questions that read something like this:
“Can this person/product/service HELP ME get from where I am now to where I want to be, and how painful will the journey be?”
“Can I learn to trust this person/product/service? …because I don’t yet.”
“What is the cost of skipping all this for now and coming back to it later?”
“Exactly how will my life be better if I do this? Worse if I don’t?”
“What can I expect if I do/don’t ‘pull the trigger’?”
“Does this person/product/service actually CARE or are they just trying to get my money?”
“What is the unbiased reputation of this person/product/service?”
To be a success online means leading. To LEAD an online audience means helping your readers/followers/prospects answer the above questions in your favor.
That’s the big secret.
Stated more plainly – success doesn’t come to those who place themselves at the center of the situation. It’s NOT about you – and if you make it about YOU, you will almost certainly fail.
Further evidence of this simple yet powerful “secret” can be found in two best sellers: The Holy Bible, & “How to Win Friends & Influence People” by Dale Carnegie <-affiliate link
The rest of the story:
The next week when dropping my son off at the same weekly event I reminded him, “It’s not about you – remember our talk.”
He had a FANTASTIC evening.
In late 2012 I passed the ten year anniversary of being “self employed”.
In recognition of a decade of failures and successes I’ve written my latest book. It’s a short book (only 29 pages), but I think you’ll enjoy it. The title is self explanatory.
It’s only available for sale on Amazon. Use this link to order
What you get when you order:
When your purchase the book you also get access to the high quality audio I made reading the book with my new high powered microphone! It’s one hour of my BEST ideas that you can take with you and listen to anywhere.
Is this book for you? Let the feed back from others help you decide.
Below you’ll find some of the feedback that was sent to me by the earliest readers of this short book as well as comments left here on my blog. Please leave your comments here as well once you’ve checked it out!
I hope this note gets directly to you somehow.
This was a Great little book, so much information in so little space!
As always, a true pleasure to deal with someone as competent and
straightforward as you.
I have been personally getting back on track lately.
I lost my job on the 31st of Jan of this year and have been prioritizing our
families life ever since.
Not losing my goal of being and staying on course with our amazon, ebay and
other revenue streams.
We have moved 98% of our product to FBA and I find I have a LOT more time to
do the things you outline in your book here.
I am able to be home with the kids (4) and (6) little girls every day.
The revenue from our ventures is slowly building and like the great big
wheel turning, is picking up speed all the time.
You are a great teacher and have so many great ideas.
I have learned so much from you in just a few short months.
Loved, loved, loved your take on life lessons. I found them inspirational and succinct… Looking forward to reading it again and again – keep up the great work.
Just read “Ten Years, Ten Lessons” and I must say it was very compelling. I’m a bit older than you (49) and all but one of my three daughters is out on their own. I have always provided for my family and have been married to the love of my life for almost 25 years but…I have also been on the 40, 50, 60 hour a week JOB cycle the entire time. I felt myself reflecting on this after reading this and I do have regrets about not being around enough for my family. One business trip after another, weeks on the road etc have taking their toll over the years. I am going to send a copy of this to each of my girls (with your permission) in the hopes that they will gain some insight about what it means to really be successful. Thank you for being a truly authentic beaming light of hope Jim.
Read your new book. It’s fantastic! I love that it’s short and to the point with great insights from your experiences in business.
I really enjoyed this book. It’s uplifting and informative, I think you will do well with it on Amazon. I recently purchased your course ‘The Proven Amazon Course’. Hope to be following in your footsteps soon. I like and appreciate your philosophy in your business but more importantly how it seems to come across in your life. Thanks for sending your latest book.
As always, great info!
What I like about you is that you’re like a filter of great ideas. I receive a lot of emails from internet marketers and some send out emails like 2 or 3 times a week, I used to read a lot of them, but now days i just don’t have time, except when it’s from you, i always read them, you’re the only one I took the time to put in my safe email list, to make sure I get your email. Sometimes you might go a week without sending an email but when you do, it’s always valuable information and I make sure to read them.
I remember back in college in 2002, I had little money, when you had the silent sales machine book, I bought it and it was unique, and started reading your newsletter, I started making some money and saw how you grew, and then the mysilentteam.com came out, also with great info, and then the proven ebay course. So you only had products that you knew people were going to be successful and value, and that’s why whenever you have something new, I always bought it, because I knew it was going to work. And I’ve never seen that with anybody else. So it all boils down to trust. And I trust you, in everything you do and say.
(reply from Jim: Thanks Julian – it looks like we go WAAAAY back! We STILL have the “Silent Sales Machine” book! It’s been updated 7 times since then! Get it here for only $5
I have just read your Ten Years & Ten Lessons, having been sent your way by a friend. The timing was just so perfect, and it was such an interesting read, as I am making changes to my business to provide information, on a subject I was so cautious about sharing before.
I realized that I had created a job for myself, and actually admitted to family recently that I enjoyed making my product much like a factory worker on a conveyor belt. It was only after I said it out loud, that it became clear that I was completely restricting my life and income to that of a factory worker, and not the creative success I though I was. I am in the process of changing this, and with this change I know that my business can only grow bigger and make me a lot richer than I am now!
I am so glad I discovered your website today- it has most definitely inspired me!
Jim, I’m just starting and while I know a lot of what’s in here, there are still great insights re personal and business life.
The small successes one resonated b/c I got a huge fee from one client based on one article I wrote two years ago (before I started my business). Its allowing me to hire some contract assitants while I get started.
I also admire your attention to family. It’s too important to ignore yet and too easy to bypass.
The Amazon approach seems sound too. It seems best to get a handle on what to sell and have someone else(partner) do it. I already do the contract assistants rather than hire employees. (Can’t afford that anyway!)
And there is no advantage in a large building.
Also, I’m older and a little ornery so I find saying NO a lot easier than most people.
All good stuff.
Thank you! P.S. Re writing long pieces Vs short.
St. Blaise Pascal once apologized to a friend for writing him a long letter.
“I didn’t have time,” he said, “to write a short one.
The Daley Post
I read your “ten short lessons” and found it not just an interesting read, it quickly and succinctly gives “legs” to the concept that time is truly precious. You accurately and convincingly use examples to make your point. Organizing your limited time in such a way as to unburden it with low priority activity is key to unleashing one’s creative energy on the things that give meaning to life… and by example you offer hope to others that they too, with a little concentrated effort, can change their circumstances and make dreams come true.
You did a terrific job in just a few words-
I read your new book last night and what really stood out to me was the need to produce information products and share. more. information.
I tend to lean more towards the conservative side and I think that has been holding me back. Thanks for the gentle reminder that I need to give, give, give to receive.
Have a fantastic weekend!
Jim, just a note to say I really loved what you articulated in the enclosed book, the comments and lessons learned align extremely well with what I have found and am learning with my own business. I have circulated your book on all my social media and my website!
Dear Mr. Cockrum, Just a quick note to thank you for the report you sent me. That along with so much of what you do has been such a help and inspiration to me. I wish you the best, Janna V
Great advice and wisdom from someone who has done it and has the ability to
transfer his knowledge and experience to newcomers. You have always impressed
me as a straight shooter and a successful entrepreneur.
I’m just starting out, but it is clear to me that authenticity is THE big rock if you want to make it online. And, you are a master at demonstrating that authenticity is the name of the game.
I just got a private message from someone whose name you’d probably recognize. He and I have something in common. For both of us, a big part of our business is teaching Internet business concepts to individuals and businesses. He’s been doing it for far longer than I have though, and he is far more well known than I. I consider him an early mentor in my success. It was an honor hearing from him. Here’s what he wrote to me yesterday:
How are you?
I like the way you’re getting success stories. How are you getting people to IMPLEMENT so you can GET your success stories?
This is my goal for 2013!
(to get students to implement and get more success stories from students)
I think my reply would make a good blog post. I won’t mention you by name b/c I don’t want any negative exposure for you.
I gave it some thought, and I think (it’s an educated guess really) that the results I’m getting from students comes primarily from a combination of the foundational education I give up front (for example in my silentsalesmachine.com book – which is where most customers discover me) and a few other factors.
The SilentSalesMachine.com book spends significant time teaching about what DOESN’T work, mixed in with a heavy, and repetitive dose of what I know for SURE does work. I pound it and pound it till they are sick of hearing it. This helps keep my students from falling for other “shiny objects” outside of the tight circle I draw in the sand.
I have the advantage as well of having been in the business a long time (like you), so I can smell a scam a mile away, and I teach my students how to do the same. I’m not one to promote the “latest and greatest” ideas that come along. I let new ideas prove themselves first before I even take a look. My readers trust and respect my opinion b/c I take my time and avoid the “bandwagons” that roll through town.
Finally – don’t be too impressed. It takes a lot of ebook buyers to produce one awesome success story. You know as well as I do that on average, people by nature are easily distracted, too busy to be serious, and lack follow through on most resolutions they make – but when I get a serious student who is ready to work we are turning out a LOT of success stories these days!
Great hearing from you-
PS: Use the “Testimonials” link at the top of my blog to see some of the cool stories we’ve been getting.
One of the most overlooked “secrets” of my success over the last 10 years online has been my relentless pursuit of good partnerships.
I’m not talking about the “call a lawyer and write up a contract” type of partnership. I’m talking about the kinds of partnerships that can be established for virtually no risk and with potentially huge rewards by all involved.
Partnerships which are established with simple, yet mutually beneficial terms are the fast track to success. Creative partnerships have been vital in growing my business.
Here are some real examples of how simple partnerships have made my business easily 10 times bigger than it would be otherwise:
Some vital ingredients that allow me to set up so many powerful partnerships:
Fans and followers are nice, but they are also fickle. You need a system for turning the hardest working and most successful followers you have into partners.